I'm now talking about abuse. Anything that got to do with abuse. Doesn't matter whether its child abuse wife abuse animal abuse or lain-lain yang sewaktu dengannya.

Talking about wife abuse, I have a friend, N, who always call me and spoke to me everytime her husband hit her. I know her since I was in Sec school. She came from another school. Got to be her friend when my best friend introduce her to me. Three of us became best friends after that.

I don't know why she choose me to tell about her problem. Maybe that's how she want to relieve her stress and also maybe I'm a good listener. She would rather not put it as abuse but just a hit from her beloved husband. She still loved her husband even after so many hits. I advise her to apply for PPO, but she do not want. According to her, her husband is actually a soft spoken man, can be very loving when all is well. But when something is not right to him, my friend will become his punching bag. Maybe after a few advised from me and after she really can't take it anymore this time...she file for divorce when her son is just 1 year plus. She's now leading a happy life with her son and her parents. But lucky for her son, he's free from child abuse since he was born.

I just don't understand why these abusers must raise their hand. Can't they just do verbal abuse. At least there won't be any blue black marks on the other party.

Have you heard about this one? Not me.....by the way how is bread abuse?